Adversity - Finding Your Silver Lining

Adversity is defined as "a state or condition contraryBut before we can find the silver lining in our adversity,
to one of well-being" or "an instance of misfortune."we need to give into it. "Give into it?" you ask. Yes.
That sounds about right. Adversity, I am also told,Sometimes we're so busy striving against adversity
comes into every life. I just seem to have used up mythat we don't pause to examine the purpose. Oops, I
quota - and that of a few friends and family memberssaid the "P" word, didn't I?
as well.Ah well, it can't be avoided. Deliberately pause the
Scripture states, "All things work together for good tostruggle for a moment. It will take your eyes off of the
those who love God, to those who are the calledcircumstance long enough that you can see the
according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28, NKJV) Untilunderlying message. After two years of poverty and
recently I had issues with that scripture, because it justdepression, I can now say that I truly understand that
didn't make sense to me. My thoughts asked, I'madversity is a tool. It shows us exactly who we are so
almost homeless and that has a purpose? I don't quitethat the necessary process of refinement can
see dead people yet, but give me a few more monthscontinue. So, no, God does not want bad for you or
of this and I'll be one of them...this has a purpose? Myme, but when He has allowed it in my life, I've learned
fiancé is about to become a father, and I'm notthree things:
pregnant--umm...still searching for the purpose.
Adversity may come for many reasons. Sometimes it1. He doesn't allow more than I can bear, so I take
may be that we're not in the right location, and thoughcomfort in the knowledge that God has confidence in
we know it, we're reluctant to move. So God allowsme!
the circumstance that causes us to move.2. Even when it breaks me down till I'm weakened and
Sometimes, we need to be cut off from all our tasks,torn, I take courage in the knowledge that at my
duties, jobs, and entertainment so that we can spendweakest, His strength I'll secure.
time alone and hear the voice of God.3. Even when it seems to go on and on, I remind
Sometimes we may take credit for the gifts of God,myself that although He never seems to come when I
so God allows the downsizing, the voice loss, thethink He should, God always manages to be right on
carpal tunnel, and so forth so that we may realize thattime!
we can do nothing without Him.